Individual Counseling (15+)
Sometimes the best place to start is with ourselves. Finding the source of our anxiety, depression, self-doubt, or inability to maintain healthy relationships can be a difficult journey but so worthwhile in the end. Many times I find that after my clients spend time working on themselves, they feel comfortable inviting important members of their life into the therapeutic process to resolve past hurts allowing them to move forward to a healed and healthy future.
Trying to remember WHY you wanted to find your person and fall in love? I hear you. Big fight or little fights, every day or just about the same thing once a month. It doesn't matter because they can add up to the same resentment or hopelessness that leads you to start daydreaming of finding a way out even though you would love to find a way to fix it. Sometimes a little outside help is needed to find the light at the end of the tunnel. I enjoy working with couples to help them move past the anger and hurt and get back to liking each other again.
I offer premarital counseling to couples in order to address those "future life" challenges: establishing traditions, fighting fair, children, finances, shared and individual goals (and how to deal with your new in-laws!)